You have been dating him for two years now and it has really been blissful, though not without the ups and downs of every relationship. He treats you like a queen and worships the very ground you walk on. He loves and respects everyone around you and you know he is perfect for you. He is really working hard to take you to the altar but he has financial constraints..... Everything seems to be going at a good pace but the whole story changed when you attend your friend's wedding...
Hmmm, what a wedding! The celebration was the talk of the town for months. You are just getting over it when your friend calls to say that her hubby has just given her a brand new car. You begin to think 'when will your fiance make enough money for your wedding? Would he ever get you a car? Things suddenly become slow in your eyes because your friend is married to a wealthy man.
Well, your friend invites you for a surprise birthday party she has organized for her hubby and that's it! You get there and can't take your eyes off anything. The cars at the garage, the flowers, the serene and beautiful environment, the leather sofas, the plasma tv, the sound system. This must be heaven. You begin to despise your fiance. He lives in a bedsitter with a few chairs. You try to do a comparison. There's no point! You get terribly angry..
Your eyes are rolling. Some of your hubby's friends are singles and your mind begins to suggest terrible things. You try to ward it off but it comes stronger...
After the party, you find time to talk to your friend. You start to complain about your fiance. You say things that are not so true because you have become impatient. Your friend can see the handwriting on the wall and she offers to help. Afterall, what are friends for? One of her hubby's friend is seriously searching for a good wife and she tries to matchmake you. Good idea huh?
The new guy calls you and you start a relationship. so soon?. Then, you start to complain terribly about your fiance. Things that made you happy suddenly begin to piss you off. Little by little, you try to aviod his calls and he can sense it. He sends his friends and family to plead with you and but you do not listen.
The new guy invites you over for a weekend and you are mad with excitement. You jump into a bus to see a man you do not know! Safe journey....oo He comes to pick you at the motor park and takes you to his house! What a house??? This is your final bus stop! You assure yourself that you won't miss this guy and he senses it, he sees the desperation in his eyes and he is frightened. Mintues later, you get into the kitchen to prepare dinner and you eat together. What a sumptous meal! He applauds you and you are happy. You think you are winning him over. After a while, you start the mop the floors. Hmm, at night??? You won't even do that for your mother in the mornings. He tells you that the maid would do it but refuse. You do all the chores for him and at night you dress very seductively. He is tempted and you guys have sex! Hmm, what do you think you are doing? Having sex with a man who's not legally married to you and worse still, one you barely know. cheap flower girl dresses
Hmm, Its monday morning and he is almost begging you to leave. When you finally agree to leave, you deliberately leave some of your clothes in his wardrobe because you have come to stay( lmao). He gives you some good cash on your way back and you are really overjoyed. You tell your mum to prepare to see her rich son inlaw. (Story)
In the next few days, you begin to do all the calling. He starts to complain that he's too busy. But who wouldn't be too busy for a desperate girl like you?
When he reluctantly invites you again, you intensify your efforts. You cook, clean, wash his clothes and give him sex and more sex. You do not even know so much about him except for the fact that he works in an oil company and his parents lives abroad. You do not even want to hear any detail about any woman in his life.
You are pregnant after two months and you have mixed feelings. You do not know what his reactions might be, but you are sure you have something to hold him down. But to your utmost surprise he doesn't want to hear of it and he says the baby isn't his. He screams and calls you all sort of names. (What do you expect? You made yourself so cheap). You plead and plead but he wants an abortion. You are so confused.
You go for an abortion, and after a few weeks he calls you again. You feel very terrible but you forgive him.
You visit him unannounced only to find a girl in his house. You are so devastated and you leave. When you call him to find out who the slut in his house is, he tells you she is his wife to be and no slut. He apologizes profusely. He has always tried to talk to you about her but you never listened. He has always had a woman in his wife but they only had a misunderstanding and she was back. You try to fight your way back but his mind is made up and you are the looser!
You go back to your fiance and he accepts you back. You are indeed lucky. Many girls are not as lucky as you are.
What do you think? Men are wicked huh? But don't you think girls are even more wicked? You abandon a man who has done so much for you because you hear a man is ready for marriage. It just makes me wanna ask. 'What makes a man ready for marriage? If you think, it is only money, you have to think again! A man can have a fat bank account and not be ready yet a man can have so little and be ready.
Don't sell your self cheaply because of money. The man who cannot afford a car today can buy ten tommorrow and the fact that your friend is getting married today doesn't mean you should be married today too. There's time for everyone and everything!